Yhanthlei wrote:I made a policy of remaining somewhat neutral but sympathetic to the US, and hoped to forge an alliance with Texas at the end of their conflict. The US' offer to deliberately cede me Illinois, among the US' other centers. I moved in and made an offer to Texas where we would refrain from attacking each other and find a common enemy to work against. Texas agreed, as far as I can remember. In the next phase I was surprised to find that Texas had invaded Illinois, and felt that I had been betrayed. Texas explained his view that the Illinois supply center was by right his and that I was stealing his kill, so that his invasion of Illinois didn't constitute breaking our agreement.
Your "alliance" offer was "I get everything I want and you can take what you can get. Then maybe I'll throw you a bone. Go have fun in the south while I mop up the whole north". I never responded to the last message agreeing to any of that. You had been loyal to the US and let me be the bad guy the whole time. There was no way I was letting you have that kind of leverage in our alliance or position. On top of that you stopped talking to me after the restart. Read below (from bottom up).
Re: so I guess
Sent: 27 Dec 2011, 08:13
by Yhanthlei
As for the US centers, for now I'd say whichever ones we can get. If I end up with Illinois and stuff to the east I'll cede Illinois to you, I don't intend to block off your expansion.
As for a DMZ, it depends on what US centers we pick up, but I think that Iowa and Wyoming should probably be DMZs, and that I should stay out of Missouri.
Happy Holidays to you too.
Re: so I guess
Sent: 25 Dec 2011, 05:37
by presser84
I am glad to hear that. With only 3 centers left how do you see the division going? I would also like to hear if you have any proposals for DMZs.
Have a wonderful Holiday
-Press
Re: so I guess
Sent: 25 Dec 2011, 05:30
by Yhanthlei
It's a good diplomatic line to go with, certainly. I'm just catching up on communications and strategy now, my apologies for the delay. Christmas arrangements and travel got the better of me in my games, it turns out. I'd like to end any hostilities between us, such as they were, and I'm certainly interested in cooperation into US territory and into the frontier, if you end up sending settlers west.
Re: so I guess
Sent: 19 Dec 2011, 14:25
by presser84
I basically said the same thing to Spain as I did to you. They grow faster attacking the US than they do helping the US against me. Have they joined me? I dont know. I think they are just playing to win the game.
Re: so I guess
Sent: 19 Dec 2011, 06:26
by Yhanthlei
So, would I be correct in guessing that you've talked Spain into joining you in the war against the US? That would greatly change strategic calculations, if true.
Re: so I guess
Sent: 15 Dec 2011, 02:57
by Yhanthlei
Of course.
Re: so I guess
Sent: 15 Dec 2011, 02:46
by presser84
Disappointing but fair enough. Not like I have much leverage in our discussions at this point. However, I hope you will continue to maintain a dialog with me. I'm sure we may still yet have some of use to say to one another.
Re: so I guess
Sent: 15 Dec 2011, 02:17
by Yhanthlei
It may not be directly in my interest to see the US expand, but it is in my interest to maintain an alliance with the US, and as such I will not agree to that at this time, although I'm not ruling it out altogether.
Re: so I guess
Sent: 15 Dec 2011, 00:30
by presser84
Fair enough but it doesn't benefit you that greatly to see them grow either. Sometimes limiting your ally is beneficial. Can you agree to just not assist the US against me?
Re: so I guess
Sent: 14 Dec 2011, 21:40
by Yhanthlei
Sorry, my non-response wasn't an indication that I was turning down the request, it was just an indication that I was off of the site for a while. My apologies for the delay. Here is my answer:
At present I think that the US will make a strong enough ally against the US that that long term issues of Spain and Mexico don't too greatly concern me. As for my rate4 of growth I'm currently prioritizing low risk growth and stable alliances over rapid growth. I'll keep your proposal in mind, and the issues of growth safety and long term alliance strength can change, but for right now I must amicably decline.
so I guess
Sent: 14 Dec 2011, 14:41
by presser84
you have no interest in working with me in manifest destiny?
When we came back from break and restarted I started my discussions with everyone else and you didn't even send me a message. When is a non-response an agreement of terms? With no agreement on center division, DMZ or a framework of an alliance. Moving on ILL seemed acceptable (al beit agressive) move. I was pretty upset that the US just gave you his centers while I had to maneuver and work my way for everything I had. I was frustrated by the fact that I had orchestrated the coo that brought the USA down and you were the one poised to lap up all the rewards. Your vagueness annoyed me and I knew you were too cautious of a player to make a good ally. There was never a direct answer from you. Everything was "something you would consider or we could maybe do." Additionally, You couldn't help me against Mexico or Spain not to mention that Mexico was in good position to counter should I move against them. Attacking ILL was the low hanging fruit and your inability to manage an alliance (or communicate at all) was the defining line. It's a 5 player game. I didn't have the luxury of waiting it out like you did all cozy in your corner.
After I moved on ILL and during our subsequent war we had the following dialog (again from bottom up).
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 03 Feb 2012, 16:32
by presser84
I told you that I would work with you if you moved off of ILL. You ignored the message, as I suspect you had no intention of working with me. My orders were based on knowing you read my message and then ignoring it. Also, placing your unit on an other players center is MORE of an act of War than me attacking you to retake it. Especially if diplomatically no agreement had yet been made regarding who should have that center.
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 03 Feb 2012, 16:27
by Yhanthlei
No, I haven't been terribly prompt in communications this game. I've been busy. The fact remains that the idea of Illinois being yours was only in your head, not a fact of the board, and that you attacked my position instead of holding in peace. You attacked my center, not your own, and I can in fact say that my sitting on any center before the winter makes it mine. That's how the game works. Unless you have an actual proposal of peace, once which would involve ceding a territory back to me and which I would have any reason to trust, I believe that out negotiations are concluded.
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 03 Feb 2012, 16:26
by presser84
Let me also add this...
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 31 Jan 2012, 15:24
by presser84
What about ILL? You failed to mention that. I will not attack you and pursue a two way if you agree to pull out of MY center.
How was this not crystal clear where I stood?
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 03 Feb 2012, 16:21
by presser84
You have to be joking. I'm not going to get into how horrible you have been at communicating this entire game and stick specifically with what happened. I asked you to give back ILL. It was my center. You keeping that was a non-starting in our discussion. I asked for it back. You read the message (it left my out box) and ignored it. I attacked MY OWN CENTER. You can not say that you sitting on my center before the Winter makes it yours.
I did not attack your center I attacked my own to retake it.
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 03 Feb 2012, 16:13
by Yhanthlei
You don't seem to understand that attacking a center held by another power is an act of war, whatever claim to it you think you have. You attacked me, to hell with these negotiations. You have shown yourself repeatedly to not even be slightly trustworthy in refraining from attack.
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 31 Jan 2012, 15:24
by presser84
What about ILL? You failed to mention that. I will not attack you and pursue a two way if you agree to pull out of MY center.
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 31 Jan 2012, 06:42
by Yhanthlei
The NMR was my bad, I admit. You haven't given a firm answer to my question, though. Do I have your word that if I agree to and do refrain from attacking you and cooperate with you against Spain and Mexico, you'll not attack me either starting this phase and we'll end this game with a two-way draw? I've got two sets of orders prepared depending on your answer.
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 29 Jan 2012, 16:04
by presser84
You never responded to me and NMR'd!!!! I had to assume some kind of aggression!
You could have drawn if you allied with me, attacked Spain in the south and settled the west. YOU STILL CAN!!!!! Gaining those centers makes you formidable ally and opponent. Attacking you becomes foolish. That was the crux of my argument to you. You never responded. I had to take action and I purposely attacked the US's center to show you how we can push east together. The northern attack I did not expect to work since I thought you were going to hit KAN and cut my support. HOw was I supposed to know you would NMR?
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 29 Jan 2012, 09:08
by Yhanthlei
I can't solo without attacking you, I can't draw without attacking you or you agreeing to it, you aren't clearly right to resent the USA repaying a favor, and hey, you attacked me, so there's that. I'm sorry to say that you're doing a pretty bad job at presenting a case for me not doing everything I can to attack you. I'm still open to such a case, but you would have to be more persuasive than you have been so far.
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 27 Jan 2012, 09:46
by presser84
I knew the US gave you the center and I rightfully resent that.
As far as the end game, we are far from that point. You can still win this game, draw or solo, without attacking me. Im offering you the coastal centers in the east and all of the western settlements (remember as you settle the more centers needed for a solo). Plus getting stronger by gaining centers gives you your best chance to be part of the end game. Period! I am offering you that.
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 27 Jan 2012, 06:09
by Yhanthlei
There are certainly things that we could do without destroying each other. If I could disband an army with your assistance or take Ohio, I could restart a settlement program in the west. We could cooperate against Spain, or against Mexico. These are all possibilities. Here is my concern: you have apparently dismissed the idea of a three way draw, and also have indicated that you wish to pursue an alliance with Spain, at least for now. Under which of those plans do we end up in a winning draw together? Would in happen in any of them? If not, then why shouldn't I continue to attack you with all of my capability, and rally others against you when I can? I'm not saying that as a declaration of any hostile intent, and I would in fact be enthusiastic about perusing any of those options. I'm trying to convey that my interest isn't in securing a respite but in securing an endgame.
As a side note on the Illinois issue, the US deliberately ceded me the province in gratitude for my assistance. We can disagree over who rightfully should have taken the province, but it was not an act of happenstance.
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 25 Jan 2012, 23:06
by presser84
Can you see anything on the board that might allow the two of us to work together here? I see some things but I need you to see them as well. Are there any centers you might be in position to pick up that arn't Texan? If so I think we can put something together that benefits us both.
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 22 Jan 2012, 17:25
by presser84
THE US was MY kill. They attacked me from the start and I undermined them with the help of Spain. I tried to tell you this and you resisted me when I asked you to attack them with me. Then you just fell into ILL which should have rightfully been mine and I took it back I was and still am willing to let you conquer the entire western corner unopposed. If you fall back I will not attack you any further north.
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 22 Jan 2012, 06:45
by Yhanthlei
What would working with me entail? Recently you've taken Illinois without informing me and moved into Iowa, actions i couldn't regard as anything but hostile. It also looks like you're allied with Spain, and you've dismissed the idea of a three way draw in a five player game. All of these point to you still opposing Canadian independence. What is your proposal? Until I hear further I won't make an effort to take any centers from you, but neither will I necessarily move away from my current defensive lines.
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 22 Jan 2012, 06:39
by presser84
Like i said I was trying to work with you I can't work with you until you move off my lines and away from centers.
Re: I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 22 Jan 2012, 06:33
by Yhanthlei
You attacked me. If you would like an alliance instead I'd be entirely in favor of it, but if you're going to attack me then don't be surprised when I try to stop you. Incidentally I didn't fail to respond out of spite or callousness, it was because I was busy at the time and failed to answer several messages. So, would you want an alliance?
I gave you several chances to work with me
Sent: 20 Jan 2012, 15:37
by presser84
I gave you several chances to work with me against the US and you just waited and vultured them up. I was the one who put in the kill shot with Spain and you are trying to take over their centers for yourself like you are some military genius. I tried to ally with you and I tried to be fair asking you how you wanted to divide them up. You ignored me. Now I hear you are trying to rally a three way alliance against me!!
not really appreciating that you are trying to rally the entire board against me. It wont work. Are you really going to play a 5 player game to a three way draw? What a joke!
You see what happened there? When you had leverage (the whole board concentrating on me) you didn't want to work with me to help against the USA. You chose to support the US against me. However, I proved the better diplomat in that situation and I undermined your plans. Now I had leverage you still would not work with me. Like a good diplomat I was still looking to find some kind of common ground with you. You refused to even suggest something and I had to make the offer, an offer that I think was very strong for you, maybe even too strong. I was offering the Spanish held NYK and VIR and anything you wanted to settle in the north west. That was 5 centers for 1. You instead got caught up with holding ILL.
Now I had the leverage and I pressed it. That's Diplomacy. You failed to adjust besides just saying "everyone let's play for a 3 way draw and kill Texas." Don't you think both of those players had wanted more out of the game than a three way draw? Don't you think I'm a strong enough player to manage my way through that kind of ****? And even after you did that, I used it to try to build something with you. You ended up limited all because you refused to negotiate without leverage.
Was I right to claim the ILL and the rest of the USA? I'm 50/50 on that. Had the shoe been on the other foot I would have responded the way you did. However, I do feel justified attacking you because of how you treated me when I needed your help. I'll cede that you did get that center legitimately and that my insistence on ILL was a bit of a show but it was easily the low hanging fruit after that. I knew I could take it myself and I did not have the luxury of being a corner power like you. I had to make a bold move and you offered me the least compared to Mexico and Spain in terms of allies.
Re Texas' strength: I don't like the toot my own horn but my early success was also due to strong diplomacy. A weak or "neutral" player would not have succeed as Texas. I quickly realized that being the center of the board made me the easy target and the eventual natural expansion of everyone. That's why I disagree that Texas is so strong. It's more balanced that you think. It's like Austria in regular dip. I'm sure we are all aware of both the potential and the pitfalls of playing as Austria. You have the opportunity to grow very nicely early but there is risk involved if you take that strategy you may have to make enemies early. Mexico, Spain, and Great Britain fight out of a corner, in a 5 player game. By the beginning of year three I had all 4 players surrounding me.
Look at the map

It requires something more than that nice easy center in SAN early to work your way out of that as Texas. I'm only running at +1 in an increasingly strangled position.