I tried to re-read this with a bit of a cooler head, but it seems I've just managed to find something completely new to piss me off.
Pedros wrote:And now it's over, I apologise totallly to Rolan for that decision. By a distance the worst GM decision I've ever made, although I still don't accept that Rolan's argument is as clear-cut as he says. (1)Better-drawn maps (such as the classic one) say "Impassable" or similar. My only excuse, and I mentioned this at the time, was that I was in the middle of playing Russia in Youngstown, (2)and the rules explicitly allow fleet movement along the otherwise impassable northern coast. Paulus asked the question, and in the light of Youngstown I simply said "Yes".
But despite that, once the orders were processed (3)I expected some much stronger arguments against, and I would have considered them - and probably changed my mind. But in essence the only argument was that "It looked impassable and we weren't expecting this". That isn't an argument.
So...in these few sentences...the "real problem" here is the map, for about a minute. Then the rules of another game are to blame....not the game we were actually playing, but some entirely different game.....but again only for a bit.
But clearly the worst is that 3rd one. The implication that you made a ruling expecting backlash....and further anticipating that you would change your mind in the aftermath of that backlash....but still decided to stand with your original decision anyway, presumably because you didn't get the ruckus you desired.
In essence, you are saying that you decided to put your thumb on the scales and see what happened. Well, the game went to shit. That's what happened.
And I'm sorry that you feel that you won't play in my games again, but I totally understand it.
It's not a feeling. It's a fact.